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By Staff Report | 11.16.11

I am writing today to announce the closure of the Michigan Messenger. After four years of operation in Michigan, the board of the American Independent News Network, has decided to shift publication of its news into a single site, The American Independent at Americanindependent.com. This is part of a shift in strategy, towards new forms [...]

Colorado-based abstinence program provided false and misleading information to Michigan students

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By Todd A. Heywood | 11.16.11

An abstinence-only presentation provided to numerous school districts in Calhoun and Eaton Counties in October of this year provided false and misleading information to students about HIV, experts allege.

Class action lawsuit filed against MERS over unpaid taxes

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By Todd A. Heywood | 11.15.11

Two county registers of deeds filed a class action lawsuit Monday on behalf of Michigan’s 83 counties alleging that the Mortgage Electronic Registration Services owes millions of dollars in property title transfer taxes.

Schuette fights important mercury regulations

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By Eartha Jane Melzer | 11.14.11

Despite evidence of the impact of mercury on children and public health, Michigan Attorney General Bill Schuette last month joined with 24 other state attorneys general in filing a lawsuit to scuttle new EPA regulations that would reduce mercury emissions from power plants.

Safe-schools advocates say Hudson bullying ruling “sends a message”

By Todd A. Heywood | 01.25.09 | 3:00 pm

(Photo: Steven Fernandez via Flickr.com)

Safe-schools activists are hailing the recent ruling in a bullying lawsuit against the Hudson School District, west of Adrian, saying it sends a clear message to school districts in Michigan.

The case revolves around the alleged harassment at Hudson Middle School of a student identified as DP in court records. Starting in the sixth grade, DP was subjected to verbal taunts (including “queer” and “Mister Clean,” a reported reference to his pubic hair) and physical taunts, culminating in an alleged sexual assault in a locker room following a junior varsity football game. The 6th Circuit Court of Appeals voted two weeks ago to send the lawsuit back to district court, saying there were serious issues at hand in the case that need to be heard.

“I think it does send a message that on (the Appeals Court’s) behalf that schools do have a responsibility to be looking at bullying on our students,” said Kevin Epling.

Epling’s son, Matt, committed suicide as a result of bullying that his parents allege took place at a school in East Lansing. Safe-schools legislation that has repeatedly been introduced in the state Legislature has been named Matt’s Safe School Law in the boy’s honor.

Activists have been trying for years to pass such a measure, which would mandate bullying policies in all Michigan schools, but their efforts have been hampered in the State Senate.

In the lame-duck session in December, Senate Majority Leader Alan Cropsey, R-Dewitt, killed bills passed almost two years prior by the state House, preventing them from getting a hearing in the Senate. The legislation has been attacked by opponents like Cropsey and American Family Association of Michigan’s Gary Glenn as supporting a so-called homosexual agenda, because the bills list gender identity and expression as well as sexual orientation as classes to be protected by the law.

“No one says that these people (bullying victims) are L, B, G or T. But the slurs are about their sexual orientation,” said Bernadette Brown, director of policy at Triangle Foundation in Detroit. Triangle Foundation is a statewide anti-violence program that works with victims of anti-gay violence and harassment, as well as lobbies for inclusive legislation.

“We have been having difficulty getting those words included,” she said. “You can be harassed because of a perception.”

Both Epling and Brown said they welcome the ruling and said it is likely to play a role as they and other members of the Safe Schools Coalition work to introduce and pass Matt’s Law in the current legislative session. But Peters is also troubled by some of the findings in the ruling, including its mention that at one point, the Hudson victim was removed from the school by being placed a resource room.

“It sends a message — It’s OK (to bully),” Brown said. “They will just remove the victim. If what the harassers want is the victim removed, they win. Even if the student is moderately protected, nothing changes. We can sort of protect them and avoid liability, but nothing has changed. It does nothing for inclusion.”

Brown was also disturbed by the final outcome of the sexual assault charge. The alleged perpetrator, identified as LT, was originally charged with assault to commit a felony and second-degree criminal sexual conduct. He eventually pleaded guilty to a charge of disorderly conduct.

“How does assault with intent to commit a felony and [second-degree criminal sexual conduct] get bumped down to a misconduct or disorderly conduct?” Brown asked.

Epling said that if Matt’s Law had been in place, much of the harassment and bullying might have been prevented in this case.

“If Matt’s Law was in effect they would have had to have had a policy in place,” Epling said. “Having that policy can make a very large difference to have the parents to go in and work with the school. It is that community-wide aspect that is lacking.”

This story was originally published in Between the Lines, the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender news weekly for Michigan.

Comments

  • mikedreiblatt

    At Balance Educational Services, we teach students a “Bully Proofing Plan of Action.” It includes the following strategies when confronted by a bully(ies): Ignore, Walk Away, Assertively Say “Stop” and Walk Away, Go to a Trusted Adult. We detail all these skills in our book, How to Stop Bullying And Social Aggression: Elementary Grade Lessons and Activities That Teach Empathy, Friendship, And Respect (Corwin Press). These strategies empower targets to stop direct and indirect bullying, including cyber bullying.

    Each individual suggestion HAS to be accompanied with details and practice. For instance, ignoring means to continue to do what you were doing without commenting back, making faces or any response that could reinforce the bully. When choosing to walk away, it should be with head up, back straight, and a normal walking pace.

    When telling the bully to “Stop,” the victim has to express confidence through body language, eye contact, tone of voice and what (few) words to say. Chronic victims of bullying don’t usually have an assertive style of communication and therefore it needs to be practiced.

    For more bully prevention resources, got to http://www.balanceeducationalservices.com/resou…

    • Rayne1

      Perhaps instead of promoting your materials here, you should be contacting the Hudsonville School System? This child — even if a young teen — isn't responsible for what happened to them. We're not going to blame the victim. The school system has a problem with protecting ALL of its students, and they have a responsibility to do so acting in loco parentis.

  • Rayne1

    Perhaps instead of promoting your materials here, you should be contacting the Hudson School System? This child — even if a young teen — isn't responsible for what happened to them. We're not going to blame the victim. The school system has a problem with protecting ALL of its students, and they have a responsibility to do so acting in loco parentis.

  • patriciabackora

    Bullies are nothing but stinking yellow dog cowards who wouldn't have the guts to fight one-on-one. They know they're losers so they have to get their kicks out of kicking somebody who's weaker. Kids who bully other kids should be charged with deadly assault, if serious physical violence is involved. When bullying leads to bullycide, those known to have bullied the victim should at least be charged with manslaughter. God holds them guilty of murder and those creeps will fry forever in a devil's hell. Hallelujah for God's perfect justice!

  • patriciabackora

    Bullies are nothing but stinking yellow dog cowards who wouldn't have the guts to fight one-on-one. They know they're losers so they have to get their kicks out of kicking somebody who's weaker. Kids who bully other kids should be charged with deadly assault, if serious physical violence is involved. When bullying leads to bullycide, those known to have bullied the victim should at least be charged with manslaughter. God holds them guilty of murder and those creeps will fry forever in a devil's hell. Hallelujah for God's perfect justice!
    http://waronbullying.tripod.com